A lot of people tip their
hand; reveal perhaps, why they are single when they talk about their idea of
sharing their life with someone; "having someone special around," they say, "to make my big
moments more special."
Flash Fiction: Don’t Forget the Veg…
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As Joel looked through the kitchen cupboard this evening, what he saw could
best be described as “organized chaos”. Oh wait, no, it wasn’t even
organized. ...
3 hours ago
1 comment:
Let me offer a different perspective here. I have spent most of my life in relationships where the other person's "moments" have been first and foremost in our lives together. My "moments" have been celebrated only if everything in the other person's life is going well. That to me is not a loving relationship. By loving someone so much that they come first for me, I have lost my own self. I would like to hope that when people say they want to someone to be there to make their moments more special they are saying they want someone to share those moments, not witness them. But to be there and celebrate together all the wonderful things in their lives together. At least that it was I am holding out for.
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