Day 9: Four turn-ons (interpret as you wish).

1. humility

2. open-mindedness

3. skepticism

4. A thick juicy tender 20-oz steak with mashed potatoes and asparagus all covered in garlic, pepper, salt and butter plus a bottle or few of Shiraz and maybe a Yorkshire pudding and then some premium organic fair-trade bird-friendly coffee with super rich cream and then a big fat Arturo Fuente Opus X cigar and a few shots of 18-year-old single malt scotch.

And if you think numbers 2 and 3 are mutually exclusive, think again.